How to quit a girl?
Your relationship is deadlocked, you understand that it's time to leave. The problem is that only you understand this, and your girlfriend does not. How to quit a girl? Many young people want to do this without injuring the female psyche, like real gentlemen. So that the notorious installation "all men are goats!" Let's think about how the boys throw the girls, who make mistakes, and how to make the parting process less painful.
How beautiful to throw a girl?
So, you decided on this crucial step, how best to let the girl know about your intention? The best and honest option is a frank conversation in which you put all the points on I. Perhaps the girl also wants to end your relationship, but because of her natural modesty or fearing to offend you, she does nothing. Here are some possible ways to prepare for a serious conversation:
- Analyze the situation. Do you really want to part with your partner, or is this desire dictated by jealousy, anger,the desire to avenge something? If your intentions are serious, explain to yourself what exactly does not suit you in a relationship, can a girl, having changed, once again achieve your favor? Stocking up these arguments, you can calmly and on the case to answer her questions.
- Who is guilty? When you make a list of reasons, do not formulate them like this: I leave, because YOU are not beautiful and smart, you don’t know how to cook, you don’t know how to keep the conversation going, and so on. The girl should not create the feeling that she is guilty of your break. This can develop in her various complexes, difficulties in relations with other guys. You can build a phrase like this: we have to part, because I am not yet ready for a long relationship, I do not see our future together, my feelings for you have cooled, I have fallen in love with another woman, etc. In short, the reason is in you, not in her.
- Difficult conversation. So tell her about your decision, which was very difficult to make, and bring her all the prepared arguments. Do not forget to thank for all the good that you had. Do not skimp on the praise. Tell me that you are very sorry that it happened and you are confident that she will meet a decent man.
- Refrain from scandal, screaming, and especially accusations against her. No need to speak, all that has accumulated and leave with a heavy heart. After all, it may happen that you want to return to it, but having spoken filth in the end, it will be impossible to do.
- Be prepared for a violent reaction: hysteria, tears, prayers, etc. But, most importantly, be adamant! Give no hope, no chance. The most cruel in this situation would be to let the girl hope in vain. No calls, SMS, Vkontakte messages and meetings. It is better to chop off in one fell swoop than slowly saw off alive. The best option is to go somewhere out of town for a couple of weeks. Do not be fooled by women's manipulation and suicide threats - it's just an attempt to get you back.
- And yet, if you want to act like a real man, you will never start a new relationship until you complete the old ones, and you will not explain to your girlfriend.
Many men want to break up in a different way. They think how to make a girl give up herself? What is it like her decision? This is not so difficult to do! You can show her your worst sides: start drinking, changing and flirting with other women, not showing up at home, showing complete indifference to her, not caring about her opinion, etc.I think each of you will find a way to become an anti-hero for this girl. Be careful, do not live in the role of the villain and the scoundrel, because after leaving you, your ex will tell you in all colors what you really are. Such a bad name can scare the girl of your dreams.
There are also reverse situations when a guy does not know how to forget a girl who left out, how to survive this fact. He thinks: "I was thrown by a girl, how to get her back?" How to restore a relationship? The other is thinking about how to get revenge on the girl who left. It happens and this situation when the question arises: How to leave the girl you love? How to stop loving her? But this topic is a completely different article!
Gender relationships are a complex subject. Remember that now you are throwing, and someday they can throw you. Behave in this situation as you would like to do with you.