I have a new man in my life. His name is Aian. I met him through a common friend a couple of years ago. At first, I thought he was a snob and choosy but then, after hanging out with him a few times, I realized we are quite alike. Like me, he is serious or somewhat aloof to new people but eventually get an awesome connection after a few exchange. Deep inside, he has a hidden kalog-ness (goofiness). It takes a goofy person to notice a goofy one. I noticed him. And goofiness only comes out when goofy people is around; we let the goofiness out. It’s how we became friends.
Aian is fun to be with, which is normal for someone who loves to have fun. Aside from Pabz, I found another match in him. Oh, did I mention I met him through Pabz? I am thankful to him for that. Now I have two goofy friends. What I like about Aian the most is that he knows how to balance his mood. When it requires to joke, he jokes – when it’s not, he does not. He has a self-control. There is nothing wrong with having fun but do not overdo it; I learned that from him.
Aian then became Pabz’s substitute. When Pabz isn’t around, I would call Aian to accompany me to party or to just have someone to accompany me for the day or night when needed. I as well became a substitute to Aian’s friends, who later on became his favorite to tag along with when going anywhere, whether it’d be a party or a city activity that he’s affiliated with. I later became someone special to him, someone who’s more important than his friends.
We became so deeply attached to each other to the extent of sharing each other’s secrets. We became keepers of each other’s biggest secrets? Yes, we have a lot! Are you ready to meet Aian now?
Aian at their booth (Sergio Osmeña) during Dipolog City Pagsalabok Festival 2012
Okay, siya na!! Ang bida! Lol!
Oh, how I missed him! There is definitely no dull moments with him. He always makes me laugh. Just by the way he acts and speaks already make me laugh, how much more when he starts to joke. My sisters like him too; his expressions and his jokes. He is kind of a living medicine when I am sad and I definitely need a doze of him right now. Oh, before I forget, we call each other ma’am with a slang “a”.
I am sharing this to 366 Blog Photo Challenge.
November 29th, 2012 
